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#4008 - 10/13/14 11:13 AM We need to know!
Mistress Wynter Offline



Registered: 11/01/12
Posts: 414
Loc: New York, NY
More than a few of my Domme friends and I have experienced unpleasant moments in the dungeon because of a lack of input from our subs on their current physical state of being. Having someone pass out because they neglected to eat; forgetting to mention to Mistress that they ALWAYS have bad reactions to hard bondage when they ask for heavy bondage; neglecting to inform about drugs they are taking, exhaustion, hangovers, medical issues - these omissions can cause a good session to go to hell.

Tell us what's going on in your life. We actually, GENUINELY, need to know.
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#4009 - 10/13/14 06:19 PM Re: We need to know! [Re: Mistress Wynter]
MayaSinstress Offline



Registered: 11/01/12
Posts: 305
Loc: Chicago, Il
I completely agree. Even forgetting to tell your Mistress you have a latex allergy or forgetting to mention medications can make things go south quickly.

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#4011 - 10/14/14 03:34 AM Re: We need to know! [Re: Mistress Wynter]
Polyevolver Offline


Registered: 02/08/13
Posts: 56
Loc: Land of googled yahoovians
Given my genetic collection of goodies, I probably spend far too much time on this phase of preamble, but when I saw Goddess Cleo in London I told her that I had spinal fusion. We proceeded to show each other our scars and then geek about hanging out in an MRI (she feel asleep and I froze as neither of us were claustrophobic). You quickly find out if you are when you hang for 90 minutes in one - not recommended leisure activity.

I have a lot of allerges, but thank goddess not to latex - that would render life pointless

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#4020 - 10/15/14 05:25 PM Re: We need to know! [Re: MayaSinstress]
Mistress Wynter Offline



Registered: 11/01/12
Posts: 414
Loc: New York, NY
That's a huge one! Thanks for adding it, MMS.
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#4021 - 10/15/14 05:26 PM Re: We need to know! [Re: Polyevolver]
Mistress Wynter Offline



Registered: 11/01/12
Posts: 414
Loc: New York, NY
Well, much better to spend too much time on it than none. Stunning how often people spend NONE.

Thanks, polyevolver!
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#4030 - 10/18/14 11:29 PM Re: We need to know! [Re: Mistress Wynter]
Mistress Jadis Offline



Registered: 11/07/12
Posts: 147
Loc: Sydney, Australia
Definitely - and if there are any particular health issues it may be worth checking in with a medical health professional on how to manage them in combination with "strenuous activity".

Likewise known emotional triggers or unusual reactions that you've come across in previous play need to be flagged.
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#4104 - 11/13/14 01:30 PM Re: We need to know! [Re: Mistress Wynter]
Polyevolver Offline


Registered: 02/08/13
Posts: 56
Loc: Land of googled yahoovians
Have you ever been punched in the nose?
Can you breath fully through both nostrils?

If you have panties, ball gag, hood and saran curtailing your attempt at flirty repartee, partially blocked nostrils might factor into the frivolity. I have one that is chronically plugged from being punched as a kid, so monitoring the other one is appreciated.

I suppose fewer layers of gag would be the rationale response - wait, what, Less!?

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#4260 - 01/12/15 01:44 PM Re: We need to know! [Re: Mistress Wynter]
MssTatiana Offline


Registered: 06/11/13
Posts: 3
Loc: Bay Area, CA, USA
I ritually follow up an answer of "nope, no medical conditions", by asking "Do I need to know where you keep your nitroglycerin, your Epi-pen, your asthma inhaler?"
Every now and then it turns out that, now that I remind him, yes, he does have something he wants to tell me!

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