I had a somewhat confusing experience today. I was supposed to see a slave at 4pm. He was instructed to call at 2pm to confirm. We would discuss last minute details and I would give him the address. He claims we played together years ago, of which I had no prior emails from that address. But, our interests lined up well, and he sent a small deposit so I agreed to see him.
At 2:15, I receive a text message asking if he could come in at 3pm instead. I explained that was not enough notice and he would have to call to discuss. He then text again asking about switching it to tomorrow. I insisted he call of which he was in a conference and couldn't. Five minutes later he calls claiming he is driving to My space now. He hasn't been to My space and didn't have the address. There was also no sound in the background, no engine, no noise, nothing! These to Me were a lot of red flags that something does not match up.
I asked if he had a professional reference he could give to Me that I could check to make sure he is legit and sincere since his communication skills were not what proving as such. He did send an email with one reference of which I am now checking. If the Domina responds back with a positive review, I have agreed to see him tomorrow.
Perhaps, I am over reacting. But, I see this as a lot of red flags and lack of submission. His tone was also quite defensive and not that of someone I would see on a regular basis. Ladies, would you have handled the situation the right way? Subs and perverts, would you expect a Domina to see you if you did not follow instructions?
Miss Maya Sinstress