I wasn't sure what board to put this post on, so please feel free to move it.
A few times I have had women speak to me in just a certain way, with the just right gravatas and some other things I have never been able to identify to make it a very stimulating D/s moment for me.
Not just a sexual titilation, which was a small part, but a deep psychological titilation.
That feeling was never duplicated for me in a session, though my session have been very fun in other ways. I mean, I chose to be there, the session was roughly negotiated. I was willing to do what was told to me, so an emphasis on the D and the s, sometimes, briefly felt like simon says. Nothing deeply disturbing like those other brief encounters I mentioned.
For a long time I thought the missing ingredient would be a real relationship and one beyond just BDSM to make the D/s feel deep.
However, in those brief encounters I had I really didn't know the women either.
So, what do you think is necessary to make a deep feeling of D/s happen?
"Violent opining on a bdsm board has solved surprisingly few geopolitical issues."
- Ms. Regan Black